Like many of my infertility friends, we all feel it to be a waste of energy to mention the very pathetic octuplet woman. However, I was reading over an old post of mine, and looking back I totally disagree with myself. A bit comical...I usually only disagree with Tim! ha. I wanted to stress that I despise the octuplet woman! She gives infertile couples everywhere a BAD NAME! Her situation merely deepens the stigma of infertility treatments and cuts our wounds deeper. Of course the media and the right-wing crazy christians out there who believe God disagrees with treatments are having a field day I am sure! "It's God's plan...god will give you children when it is the right time." How many times have we heard that one! We all agree she is a freaking nut job. Honestly, I am only going by what people have told me, so I guess it is slightly unfair of me to judge her. My original post I actually felt badly for her and thought she was being a bit attacked...this is where I disagree. I think she is crazy loon, along with her crazy RE who obviously needs his license revoked! NOW! Most of you reading this blog know what fertility treatments entail and how cautious RE's are in terms of safety for the mother and babies. What the hell was that doctor thinking???
I guess it's all too cloudy for me. Why does this crazy *&$@ get to have 8 babies? Babies she can't even begin to provide adequate care. It's difficult to refrain from sheer bitterness....my one little precious girl dies...yet this crazy freak gets to keep implanting her eggs whenever the hell she wants. Nice...way to go Dr. Dumb ass! And not just our baby, but so many babies of wonderful parents have lived such short, precious lives. It just breaks my heart. Oh course I don't want any babies to suffer, I harbor no hard feelings toward her children, it is certainly not their fault.
I can't even post about the octuplet lady without bring up the Duggars, my nemesis. I still can't stand the Duggars. I don't even watch the show and I can't stand them! It angers me that TLC would actually air such BS. I knew they were mentally unstable when she said that god took away a baby as punishment for using birth control. Wow...god sure hates me! He makes me work for our baby and takes her away in the end after all. Of course everyone has the right to free speech and freedom of religion...but I guess free thinking and education flew out the window with the constitution.
The basic theme here: The octuplet lady sucks! The Duggars Suck! and God sucks! Yeah I said it! I can't even comprehend why all of these things happen, and mostly why terrible things happen to good people. No one can give me any explanation that makes even an ounce of sense.
I guess it's all too cloudy for me. Why does this crazy *&$@ get to have 8 babies? Babies she can't even begin to provide adequate care. It's difficult to refrain from sheer bitterness....my one little precious girl dies...yet this crazy freak gets to keep implanting her eggs whenever the hell she wants. Nice...way to go Dr. Dumb ass! And not just our baby, but so many babies of wonderful parents have lived such short, precious lives. It just breaks my heart. Oh course I don't want any babies to suffer, I harbor no hard feelings toward her children, it is certainly not their fault.
I can't even post about the octuplet lady without bring up the Duggars, my nemesis. I still can't stand the Duggars. I don't even watch the show and I can't stand them! It angers me that TLC would actually air such BS. I knew they were mentally unstable when she said that god took away a baby as punishment for using birth control. Wow...god sure hates me! He makes me work for our baby and takes her away in the end after all. Of course everyone has the right to free speech and freedom of religion...but I guess free thinking and education flew out the window with the constitution.
The basic theme here: The octuplet lady sucks! The Duggars Suck! and God sucks! Yeah I said it! I can't even comprehend why all of these things happen, and mostly why terrible things happen to good people. No one can give me any explanation that makes even an ounce of sense.
I agree with you 100%. I have been so offended by the comments about fertility treatments that have stemmed from this crazy woman's situation. Apparently I'm just supposed to accept that God doesn't want me to be a mother...and then the fact that my son was taken from me was part of God's plan. BS! Every time I see her on tv I ask my DH why she has 8 beautiful newborn babies and I lost my only one. You sound just like me. I am way too "justice minded" to believe that some of us have to suffer for a "reason" and others get to be crappy parents to their kids. Nobody will convince me that this is all part of someone's plan and that I am less deserving of a living child than the careless knocked up teenagers! Sorry to add to your rant, but I agree with you so much. Hugs.
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